It's Time For This Behaviour To Be Called Out

 So, the world is upside down for a lot of people right now, and there are a lot of things happening all over the world. In our own worlds here, we are seeing huge changes both in the rescue and in the private lives of our Board members. Of course, what rescue wouldn't be complete without someone going entirely off the rails at least annually, right? 

Well, this time we will share the entirety of the exchange we had with our periodic rail greaser. This time it is one Sandy Schedlosky, who, meaning well, took a kitten who needs medical care to the emergency vet. This is a wonderful act of care, and we love when people reach out to help as much as they can. Yesterday, 2 of our Board members spent the day dealing with some pretty heavy stuff, and when the message came that there was an injured kitten, one of them had a bit of a cry over the rescue's current financial position because it meant we couldn't help out financially. Here's how the conversation played out.

Now, these screen shots are trimmed so that they go in proper order and, with the exception of the last one, reduce the amount of reading the same thing over again for the reader. 

And here's the thing. We wouldn't be posting this today but Sandy decided that rather than simmering down and rereading the parts where she was told; 

• we are in the middle of a reset
• we cannot do any intakes right now
• if we said yes, it would be irresponsible on our part (verbatim was "whether we would be able to properly support him and that isn't fair at all")
• We would be happy to set her up with supplies in the meantime (this is not just a "can of food" as Ms. Shedlosky so wonderfully put it in her attempt to minimise us offering the help that we are capable of at this time. The gratitude was palpable, I tell you.)
• funds are non-existent (what we did not tell her because quite frankly she has no reason to know is that we are handling 3 spays, a mastectomy, and a few other projects we are trying to get off the ground. And right now the rescue has just a little over $100 in the account.)
• we have to move our current adoptables before we can do anything at all. 
• it was offered to her that we would reach out to other rescues to see if they could help.

As you can see, Sandy was ever so gracious in her response, telling us that she understood and that it was unfortunate that we were unable to assist. She even offered to lend help to us or another rescue so that it wasn't such a struggle! She kindly thanked us for our offer of food, litter, litter box, toys, etc... that come with having a cat in the house but declined, saying she didn't want to burden our already taxed organisation.

Just kidding. She posted a scathing review on google, thinking we wouldn't respond! And you know, a lot of rescues won't, because a lot of rescues don't want to upset people or rock the boat. We are a little different here though. You see, we value human beings just as much as we value animals. We will go to the mat for either one, and sometimes that means we show much more compassion for situations which would enrage others, but sometimes it means calling people out when they are acting like assholes. In this case, going to the mat for the kitten meant saying that we are unable to help with his emergency care bill, but offering what we could for the care he needed for the time he was in her care. And this post isn't about going to the mat for the person Sandy talked to, she has a pretty thick skin. It's about going to the mat for the rescue community as a whole.

Rescue workers are stretched. It's what we do. Very few of us get paid (in fact, none of the ones in our rescue take a salary at all.) so what we do, we do out of passion, and out of compassion. Yet the general public seems to believe that we are invincible and have bottomless pockets. That we don't feel those little darts thrown at us every time we express grief for losing a hard case (why didn't you do x? Well, you can't save them all.), or when we have to say no to an intake or when we have to explain to a person why their husbandry is making their companion sick. It's like being pecked to death by a lazy duck. And you know, we grin and bear it most of the time.

There is not a single person who got into animal rescue because they wanted to do nothing. There is not a single person who does rescue who feels good about having to say "I'm so sorry, we are at capacity. Not even one more." And very few of us can do so and go to bed without crying a little bit because we don't know what the fate of that little one would be. Because we all wish we had infinite funds and infinite space and infinite time to help every single struggling soul out there. And I am not complaining. No, this is not a complaint at all because another thing about rescuers is that rescuing them is what keeps us going. It's what makes the world a little better.

So I'm not posting this because Sandy is a meanie. I make no judgments as to the overall character of Sandy, despite her behaviour being entitled, childish, and petty. Who knows, maybe this is a one-off (although given that she had already been hung up on by another rescue prior to contacting us...) I'm posting this because there are thousands of Sandys out there, who would attempt to browbeat a rescue into taking in more than they can, and then strut about, bleating about how they saved that poor little kitten as though she had done anything more than a quick drive to a vet and some snotty messages. And there are thousands of rescuers who will get these messages from the Sandys of the world and say nothing. They would take the character assasinations, the pettiness, the snarling, and the holier-than-thou declarations of the Sandys and they would put it in their already heavy rucksack of shitty comments from ignorant people, and say nothing, and just add it to the load. 

That's not how we work here. And maybe it isn't as nice as the image of rescue is supposed to be. Most rescues have a face of cute, and smiles, and happiness. We don't. We do the shit that needs doing because it needs doing. We are, in contrast to most other rescues out there, pretty unfiltered about the truth of it all, the including how the same people who consider themselves saviours to animals will just as quickly (and gleefully) abuse another human being. That doesn't make us better and hell, maybe it is part of why we aren't seen as easily as others. But it's who we are.

So next time you decide you want to be a Sandy, I want you to remember the motto of our rescue. Well. The whole motto of the rescue. It's isn't just "do all things with kindness..."

Do you know that the ellipsis is there for?

Bunny Kit Care

This summer, 10 bunnies were dumped at Fort Normandeau, one of whom has a wicked hernia. We suspected them to be around 2 months old, but without knowing their breed we have no solid metric against which to determine their age.

Anyway. They were being fostered by a young woman who has a rabbit farm which includes some adorable angoras. One of the mamas had 2 runts in her litter, and when it was revealed that they would likely die, we offered to try bottle feeding. She said yes, and we took the little ones home. That's when we hit the internet and all of the bunny blogs, recommended resources we've heard of since we opened the rescue, etc... 

Bunny kits are not the same as kittens. Neonatal kittens get fed fairly often. Bunny kits get fed twice a day (thrice if you're careful and they desperately need it, but we will get there.) Their heat requirements are different, and unlike kittens, they don't appreciate being handled much. On every bunny blog we encountered, we found the feeding directions; 

and

We followed these directions, and in very short order, one of the kits began to fade. I called around to bunny rescuers and was finally able to contact one who lives in New York, and she walked me through getting the little one back on track. Satisfied that I had succeeded in figuring out how to help these little dudes, I plodded on. Unlike kittens, kits don't need feeding every hour, which made it so, so much easier.

That night though, I lost the first kit. She faded quickly and there was simply nothing I could do. I got back on the phone with Kim, the New York rescuer. She and I discussed how to avoid this with the other one, and she sent me a recipe for a formula by a woman named Dana Kremple, who is a renowned Floridian biologist with an evidently wild knowledge base about rabbits.

Okay, I thought to myself, I got this.

I mixed up the formula and fed according to what I had found on multiple sites for these 3 day old kits. But still, the remaining guy was not thriving. I couldn't understand what I was doing wrong. He was getting hydrated through subcutaneous fluids, and I was feeding him the formula. He was in our incubator, so his heat was controlled and regular at 75°f as per everything I had found. His feedings were quick, all the conditions were right, so what was wrong?

I'll tell you what was wrong. All of those sites I had visited had given incomplete information. What it should have said was;

That 10% body weight note would have saved those little kits
 had it been present everywhere else.

Do you see those first three sentences? At three days old, they had weighed 73 grams. They needed 7 mLs daily, NOT 2. This is why knowing the full story and passing on complete information is of vital importance.

I finally found a protocol from a rescue, the name of which now escapes me and somehow my ability to google effectively today is not present. The PDF I downloaded can be downloaded right here, and I do hope that people will use it rather than relying on the partial information so easily found elsewhere.

I was devastated to have lost the little ones, but now that I'm more well armed with knowledge and connections to resources should I ever find myself in the position to care for little ones like these again.

With great thanks to the helpful folks at Henry's Healthy Pets. Their fantastic formulas, knowledge, and advice have been priceless through this.

Let's Talk About How They Rescue Us

 If you've ever talked to our Director & Founder, you know that she feels passionately that animals can be our salvation. For many people, there comes a darkness which can seem crushing and overwhelming, and the only reason some people stay put is because they have an animal companion who has taught them that there is such a thing as unconditional, pure, untainted love that comes with no expectations or fine print. The trust and love of a companion animal is entirely unmatched by any other relationship for many. 

If you read the page "Audrey's Story" (CW; ideation, talk of unaliving oneself), you'll see a story of a cat whose circumstances were less ideal than our Founder thought and whose life was changed by arriving at her doorstep. What our Founder didn't expect was how significantly Audrey would affect her own life and will to live. 

Right now, we have 2 sets of bonded cats who seem to have been placed on this Earth for the same reason Audrey came to our Founder. They are Topaz & Jewel, and Jonjamin & Bethicca. 

Topaz is the most amazing, snuggly, chatty little girl who runs right up to her people and tells them all about how she loves them and what her day was like. She lets you know it's time to go to bed, and when it's time to settle down. Her insistent affection is a bright spot in any day. Her sister, Jewel, is more aloof but when she decides it's time for love, it's time for love. They've been in care for so long together that they are bonded and they have to go together to a home with no dogs. 

Jonjamin and Bethicca are also meant to be someone's heart cats. Between Jonjamin's enthusiastic biscuit making snuggle sessions and Bethicca's animated chatting, it's impossible to be angry or even particularly sad around them.

If you would like to meet either of our dynamic duos, drop us a message or an email and we can set up a meet and greet.

Why Does Your Rescue Insist on Indoor Only for Your Adopted Cats?

This is a question we face regularly. Many people feel that cats should be allowed to roam freely. Ultimately, that would be nice wouldn't it? Unfortunately, it just isn't safe. I won't even go in depth with regard to the damage they can do to bird populations and peoples' gardens, or the spraying of doors and windows that happens. You see, what our biggest concern is what can happen to your kitty. As a rescue, we see what happens to cats who are permitted to wander around. 

Sometimes, we are mending them after they've been hit by a car. Sometimes that car was intentionally aimed at them. Sometimes we are mending them after a human being with malicious intent gets hold of them. The lengths to which some people will go to harm a defenseless creature for their own amusement would make most people lose their appetite.

This is Audrey, after whom our rescue is named. She came to
us with a broken hip and needing extensive surgeries. She also
needed to be spayed before she got pregnant and had a severe 
parasite load. It took months for her to recover.

Sometimes, they will get into fights with other animals. This almost never goes well for either animal, and the injuries can become infected. 

This cat was in a fight with another, and his guardian
let him back out before the antibiotics were finished.

While this is terrible, if the wounds are cared for and healed, the cat will be okay. PROVIDED your kitty is properly vaccinated, they might even escape catching FeLV (feline leukemia virus) or FIV (feline immunodeficiency virus). Of course, your cat doesn't need to get into a fight to catch panleukopenia or chlamydophila. Maybe a touch of feline rhinotracheitis? I mean, yeah most cats are prone to it, but why increase your baby's chances of catching it? Then there is the all-too-common feline calicivirus.

What we are trying to do by having the indoors-only clause is not be controlling doody-heads. We are trying to protect your new family member from the many dangers out there. We don't let dogs, birds, bunnies, guinea pigs, reptiles, hamsters, or toddlers (and let's consider for a moment how similar cats and toddlers are) wander free, so why are we doing it to cats? 

So, now I've written out a whole bunch of reasons for you to not let your kitty wander free. So what are the solutions? 

Before you do any of the following, make sure your companions are fully up to date on all vaccines!

We love taking our little goobers out for walks if they're willing. A good harness, ability to provide shade & water, and some waste bags and you're set! Don't forget, you're walking with a cat so really the cat will be walking you. Be prepared to see a lot of slinking low in the grass, statue imitations, and once the kitty becomes more comfortable with it, rolling around and playing. You can tether the kitty outside in the back yard on a harness as well if you like, but don't leave them unattended. This has resulted in tragedy when the leash or tether becomes hung up on something or the cat tries to jump over something that there isn't enough slack left on the lead for too many times. 

Our absolute favourite method is the catio. This is an enclosed area outside which can be either a box with chicken wire attached to a window, or something more elaborate and fancy. What you have room and permission for are the only limitations with this solution. If you're in an apartment, you can always enclose your balcony, or if you don't have one you can build a window box which doesn't need to be affixed to the building. Googling "removable apartment catio" brings up scores of ideas for this. We have 2 window catios on our home, and have decided this year to undertake converting our gazebo to a catio extension. Once we get that completed, we will post photos!

We will be offering some fantastic leash and harness sets soon, so stay tuned!

What's Fostering Like?

We hear many objections to fostering around here. "I would get too attached", "I have no room", "My own cats/dogs/etc... would hate it", "I have small kids". What people don't realize is that these are all actually good reasons to foster.

"I would get too attached" is probably the most common objection I hear. Here's the thing though; we want you to get attached. We want you to really care for these little ones as though they were your very own. We want you to fret about their health, their happiness, their overall well being. You see, that's what makes a great foster family. Yes, it is hard to say goodbye at first. The first year of fostering, I wept every time I dropped kittens off at the place I was fostering for. What nobody told me was that eventually, I would welcome the surrender of my little wards because it meant that not only were they off to have wonderful lives, but that I now had room to save some more little lives. Yes, there are still the occasional foster babies who tug at my heartstrings when it's time to say goodbye (Wren, Gregory, and Moose come to mind), but even so they are meant for other families and other adventures.

"I have no room". Well, really everyone has room. We all have bathtubs, bathrooms, little unused corners of our homes that would make lovely little spaces in which to care for animals who need a temporary home while they wait for their always home. Look around you, you'll find so many spots. And you won't have to worry about paying for anything; rescues pay for the needs of the companion animal while it's in your care. That means you won't worry about the cost of food, litter, puppy pads, or anything else like that while they're your foster.

"My own pet would hate it". Well, fair. Nobody wants to put their pets through unnecessary stress. However, our oldest cats were 8 years old before we started fostering and while they weren't thrilled, they did get accustomed to the parade of little goobers through the house. It took some learning on all of our parts, but a good rescue will help and advise you through the process of settling your companion animals in to being foster siblings.

"I have small kids" is, if anything, an even bigger reason to foster! What better way to teach your children about how to give selflessly of their love and attention? They will also get to experience the wide range of personalities that animals have, and get to know about the behaviours of the animal you're fostering. Fostering with kids is a wonderful experience, and I could not recommend it more.

If you're interested in fostering or would like more information, please email us or download the foster application form here and send the completed application back to our email. We will contact you as soon as possible for a visit and discussion regarding your application. Thank you so much!

Exciting News! Also, let's talk about food for a minute.

Since the inception of our rescue's formation, we have fed our cats & kittens Royal Canin food. Even prior to that, the founder of our rescue has been a staunch supporter of and advocate for the feeding of Royal Canin. As of today, we are officially a Royal Canin shelter partner. That means that any time you adopt one of our companion cats or dogs, you get a sample of their food, plus some wicked coupons. It also means that your companion animal is coming to you with a balanced nutritional foundation.

I've been asked more than once why we don't feed a cheaper food. After all, it's a shelter (or in my own case, we have a lot of permanent residents) so funds are tight. And it's true, they really are tight. However experience with other foods has proven to me that with a few exceptions, Royal Canin has led to healthier coats, healthier GI systems, fewer instances of UT crystals recurring (our George got them terribly for a year or two, until one of our vets told us to try the RC Urinary S/O to prevent the formation of them. We haven't looked back from RC since then, and have used the range of foods to help sort out any issues our kitties were having (here's looking at you, CALM). That said, if you feed a higher quality food, you have fewer health issues which saves on vet bills. You also put a little more money up front for the higher quality food, but you're spending less on litter and food because the food is packed with more nutrients and fewer fillers than a lot of your lower end foods. Transitioning is fairly simple, by mixing 75/25 current food with new, then 50/50, then 25/75. This allows for the digestive flora to respond to the new food slowly rather than do a rapid truffle shuffle in order to "recognize" the new chemical makeup of the nutrient delivery vehicle. (Don't let "chemical makeup" scare you though; those words apply to literally everything in our world. Meat, vegetables, even your skin has a chemical makeup, and it doesn't mean it's been altered or is dangerous.) Transitioning slowly reduces the instances of diarrhea or vomiting, or of the food being rejected entirely by the animal.

That said, there are a lot of families struggling to make ends meet right now, and can't even afford to feed a lower end food let alone a really good one. No animal should ever have to go hungry, and with that in mind we still collect food donations. Those donations go back into the community by helping to feed the companion animals of families who need that leg up, for as long as they need it and for as long as we have the food to give. If you or someone you know is in need of food for their companion animal, please feel free to drop us a line.